Wording Your Wedding Invitations When The Bride’S Parents Are Footing The Bill

 



Some of the most common wedding invitation etiquette questions we receive revolve around how to word wedding invitations. And for good reason – the way you word you invite doesn’t just tell your wedding guests where to be and when.


ASK YOURSELF WHO’S HOSTING

Deciding how to word your wedding invitations always begins with one question: who’s hosting the wedding?

The host of your wedding is typically the person or people paying for the majority of the celebration. More and more commonly, the couple themselves are paying for their own wedding. But traditionally, the bride’s parents pay for the wedding and therefore, get the honor of doing the inviting.

Here we’ve listed a variety of invitation wording ideas written for weddings hosted by the bride’s parents. Remember though, if both parents are financially contributing to your wedding, you’ll want to include everyone.

Before you get started, we have one tip. When writing wedding invitation wording from the bride’s parents, pay attention to first and last names. Since the bride’s parents’ first names and last name are mentioned, only the bride’s first and middle name should appear on the invitation. However, the groom’s first, middle and last names should be included. These rules may vary with divorced or remarried parents.

WORDING EXAMPLES IF THE BRIDE’S PARENTS ARE PAYING

There are so many ways to word your wedding invitations if the bride’s parents are doing the inviting. Here are a few of our favorites:

MOST POPULAR
With joyful hearts
we ask you to be present
at the ceremony uniting
Sara Michelle
and
Brady Christopher Ziegler
on Saturday, the twelfth of September
two thousand twenty five
at six o'clock in the evening
Bluxome Street Winery
53 Bluxome Street
San Francisco, California

Dustin and Margaret Schultz


FORMAL AND TRADITIONAL
Dustin and Margaret Schultz
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Sara Michelle
to
Brady Christopher Ziegler
on Saturday, the twelfth of September
two thousand twenty five
at six o'clock in the evening
Bluxome Street Winery
53 Bluxome Street San Francisco, California


SIMPLE AND ELEGANT
Dustin and Margaret Schultz
request the pleasure of your company
at the marriage of their daughter
Sara Michelle
to
Brady Christopher Ziegler
on Saturday, the twelfth of September
two thousand twenty five
at six o'clock in the evening
Bluxome Street Winery
53 Bluxome Street
San Francisco, California


PERFECTLY CASUAL
Dustin and Margaret Schultz
invite you to join
the families and friends of
Sara Michelle
and
Brady Christopher Ziegler
for the ceremony and celebration
of their marriage
on Saturday, the twelfth of September
two thousand twenty five
at six o'clock in the evening
Bluxome Street Winery
53 Bluxome Street
San Francisco, California


CHRISTIAN FAITH
Our joy will be more complete
if you can share in the marriage
of our daughter, Sara Michelle
to Brady Christopher Ziegler
on Saturday, the twelfth of September
two thousand twenty five
at six o'clock in the evening
Glad Tidings Church
1280 Webster Street
San Francisco, California
We invite you
to worship with us and witness their vows
If you are unable to attend
we ask your presence in thought and in prayer

Dustin and Margaret Schultz


A ROMANTIC SPIN
How beautiful is the day
that is touched by love
Dustin and Margaret Schultz
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Sara Michelle
to
Brady Christopher Ziegler
on Saturday, the twelfth of September
two thousand twenty five
at six o'clock in the evening
Bluxome Street Winery
53 Bluxome Street
San Francisco, California


FOR A SPRING, FALL OR HOLIDAY WEDDING
As this season begins
we have a special reason
to celebrate with family and friends
You are invited to share the joyv as our daughter
Sara Michelle
and
Brady Christopher Ziegler
are joined in marriage
on Saturday, the twelfth of September
two thousand twenty five
at six o'clock in the evening
Bluxome Street Winery
53 Bluxome Street
San Francisco, California

Dustin and Margaret Schultz


SENTIMENTAL
A life of sharing, caring
A love of endless giving together
Dustin and Margaret Schultz
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Sara Michelle
to
Brady Christopher Ziegler
on Saturday, the twelfth of September
two thousand twenty five
at six o'clock in the evening
Bluxome Street Winery
53 Bluxome Street
San Francisco, California


Wedding invitation dress code

Once you learn how wedding invitation dress code works, it's time to decide what your dress code will be. This part is a little trickier, so we put together a guide to explain some standard wedding dress codes.

Take a look and decide what fits your wedding style best.

Casual Wedding Dress Code

How to say it on your invitation: Casual Dress

What it means: Casual dress means wedding guests can wear pretty much anything they want.

What to wear: We recommend a casual dress for the ladies and dress pants with button-down shirt or polo shirt for the guys. But, if the wedding is at a rustic location, or extra casual like a barbeque, even jeans and cowboy boots will do!

Cocktail or Semi-Formal Dress Code

How to say it on your invitation: Cocktail Attire or Semi-Formal Dress

What it means: Cocktail Attire or Semi-Formal Dress is a step up from a casual dress code. Think more tailored clothing. They both mean the same thing, so choose the term you like best.

What to wear: A nice dress for ladies and suit and tie with a sport coat for the gents.

Beach Formal Wedding Dress Code

How to say it on your invitation: Beach Formal Attire

What it means: Beach inherently indicates casual, which is why formal is tacked on to the end — it's still a classy affair.

What to wear: We recommend a formal summer sundress (tea-length or knee-length) with flats for the ladies and a summer suit with linen shirt, linen pants or khakis and sandals for the guys.

Formal Attire or Black Tie Optional Dress Code

How to say it on your invitation: Formal Attire or Black Tie Optional

What it means: These two phrases are very common in today’s weddings. They indicate that the wedding party will be in formal wedding attire, and it's optional for all guests.

What to wear: We recommend a dark suit or tux for the men and formal evening wear (floor length dresses or evening pant suits) for the women.

Black Tie Wedding Dress Code

How to say it on your invitation: Black Tie

What it means: Black Tie usually indicates an evening affair where the men where tuxedos and the women wear formal gowns of any length.

What to wear: For the guys, a black tux. Women should wear a formal gown of any length.

White Tie Dress Code

How to say it on your invitation: White Tie

What it means: This is the most formal of all wedding dress codes. We’re talking soirees at the White House kind of evenings.

What to wear: The gentlemen dress in long-tail tuxedos and the women don full-length ball gowns. If only we could be so lucky as to attend one of these fabulous affairs!